6 Things Men Secretly Wish Women Would Do For Them In Bed

Three words – men are simple.

This goes even for activities that they want to engage in bed. It is a rarity that you will find a man, who demands a great deal of acrobatics from his partner when it comes to sex.

You can even go to the lengths of saying that men are predictable in the bedroom with preferring the traditional missionary position or the occasional cowgirl position.

Nevertheless, it is their innermost desire to keep their sex life spicy. There are several things that men want from their female partner.

Here is a list of the same –

Provocative Lingerie

Men realise that lingerie is one of the weapons that women use to turn them on…and they love it. You can even buy provocative lingerie for special occasions to entice your man like never before.

Dirty Talk

Engaging in dirty talk in bed can prove to be good for both parties. Men love it when women talk dirty to them. Using words like “wet”, “harder” and “that feels good” can do wonders encouraging the guy to step out of his comfort zone to try something new. Even though not everyone likes doing it, giving it a go once in a while can be a win-win situation for both.

Women Taking Control

Men find it alluring to have a partner who loves taking control in bed. This insinuates her knowing what she wants leading her to try different methods of communication. A man would not mind if his partner wants to introduce a couple of accessories such as handcuff or a whip and dominate him. As the female partner, you can also take control of the positions you want to try.

No Turning off the Lights

Exposing your body in front of your partner can be intimidating, which is why you may prefer keeping the lights off during sex. Your man might find it awkward to tell this, but he definitely wants to leave the lights on. The fact of the matter is that he wants to see you. He will admire every inch of you like never before and make love to you by looking you in the eye. Try this and you can be sure of having never seen your man as passionate before.

Honest Direction

This again goes in line with communication, as men prefer their partner giving direction if they are not doing it right. Contradictory to popular belief, directing the man does not hurt his ego. The man, in fact, wants to please his partner and would like to have sex the right way. Even a simple “yessss!” might encourage him to pursue a move that both of you will like.

Climax Should Not Be the Focus

It goes without saying that making a woman orgasm is more difficult than achieving the same for a man. Males like it if women do not make it their primary objective to make their man climax.

Even men love foreplay and the build-up that leads to sex. It is important that you take care of him sexually and acknowledge him as a whole than focussing on just one aspect.