We all know that sex is the most pleasurable activity and we all love to indulge in it.
I am yet to come across a person who says that he has never had it, or never thought about it, or doesn’t want to get involved in it.
Yet, in a society like ours, Sex one such topic which is not meant to be discussed in open. If at all there is a discussion, it must be behind closed doors or in special forums where common man cannot always reach.
That is the reason, young minds are still nurturing a lot of myths around sex, especially young girls!
Here, I am going to try and help you debunk some of the sex myths, stupid thoughts that you girls foster in your mind. Give them up NOW!
Myth 1: Performance Related Problems Are Only For Boys
Wrong! Girls too can have a lot of bed performance and similar problems. Problems like low arousal, lack of orgasm, painful intercourse are some of the regular problems with women, which they usually ignore and blame it to other lifestyle conditions. If you are facing such problems, get a thorough check-up done without delaying it.
Myth 2: Women Have Different Sexual Desires Than Men
This is so so wrong! Men and women, both are humans. They are similar or different in many things and so is sex. In fact, most people’s sexual desires differ from individual to individual. Variation in sexual desire is more related to one’s relationship than the gender. So it’s not about being a man or a woman. Both have quite similar desires when it comes to sex.
Myth 3: Orgasm Is The Peak of Sexual Satisfaction For Women Too
For most woman, orgasm is not the ultimate destination of sex. Orgasm done doesn’t mean sex is done. Women fancy foreplay and a lot of cuddling after sex but most of the times, ignore it or are not aware of it themselves. They may feel incomplete even if they have attained orgasm and which was devoid of foreplay and cuddling. Men take notice!
Myth 4: Women Lose Their Libido After Menopause
Losing sexual desire after a certain age is more related to physical health of the person. Nearing menopause is an age when a lot of women are suffering from many health issues. Which in turn leads to losing interest in sex. Menopause has nothing to do with that. If at the time of menopause, a woman is generally healthy, her sexual desires would be at peak.
Myth 5: You Do Not Get Pregnant With An Intercourse During Your Period
No Missy! This is wrong! Though the chances are less of conceiving during a period flow, yet, impossibility is totally ruled out. Once a sperm is left in your body, it can live up to 5 days. Copulation can happen after your cycle stops. Moreover, ovaries are most fertile immediately after the menstrual cycle. It’s advisable to use protection even during the periods, if you are not looking forward to having a family.
Myth 6: Porn Is Only For Men
If any woman thinks like this, she hasn’t really watched any good porn! The truth is, women sometimes enjoy porn more than men. Erotic images and text arouse women enormously. It also helps to get into the mood when the towers are down. Try it, you won’t regret it.
Myth 7: Sex Before Marriage Is Still A Crime And Not Healthy
No, not at all! Marriage is not the license to have sex! Consensual sex before marriage is no harm at all. In fact it is a wonderful way that you can have a healthy and happy sexual life after you get married. Trust me, sometimes, sex after marriage is not a consensual act and it seems just like a task done. Nor is it the safest (read: STDs). So if you think married sex is the healthiest, think again.
Myth 8: The Only Way Women Can Orgasm Is Penetration
Most people think penetration sex is the only way that women can reach the extreme sexual pleasure or orgasm. This isn’t true. There are many other ways to satisfy their needs. They have other body parts, which if concentrated upon, can help them reach amazing orgasms. Nipples and clitoris are two most prominent ones. Ever tried?
Here you go girls, shun those lame thoughts in your mind and make the best of your young years.
But make sure you indulge in safe and secure sex. Safety and hygiene should be your prime concerns while experiencing the most beautiful act of life.
You have all the right to demand both!
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