“In desperate love, we always invent the characters of our partners, demanding they be what we need of them, and then feeling devastated when they refuse to perform the role we created in the first place.”
― Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love
Break ups usually happened the couples do not resolve their fights.
It is difficult to re connect after a terrible fight as you feel appalled destroyed. So how to reduce this coldness and bring the love back? It is not hard to recover from bad fight if you follow some quick steps to resolve the issue!
Below are the steps to bounce back your and ways to mend your relationship-
- Calm Yourself And Give Space:
Let the intensity of the fight go off and wait till you and your partner gets cool down as well. Don’t be victim of your immediate reactions as reacting and arguing incessantly will leave you feel regretful ultimately. So it’s best to calm down, relax and stop communicating for a while.
- Communication should be now effective and constructive after the tiff:
Do not try to open the same chapter of fight again. Use language the correctly. You can bring back the topic later to showcase your viewpoint calmly later. Then, take time to listen to your partner’s side of the story and try to have compassion for their feelings and perceptions.
- If you think it was your mistake then you should offer sincere apology:
This is another way to repair your relation by proffering sincere apologies. It is important to apologize sincerely.
- Do not build up grudge and try and come close:
Do not hold any grudges after that as this will not at all help to fix your relationship. If you showcase your vulnerable side then your partner may not like to make move again. Showcase some compassion or one can also indulge in make up love.
- Final Step- To show how much you care and love:
You should show how to much you care and love about him or her. Try to hug, touch and make an eye contact. Talk on some other topics better if you talk on some lighter note. If you show how much you care for your partner then bigger issues can be resolved.
- Surprise and make your spouse cheer and happy:
Make your bae happy by giving some good surprise by giving a gift or by having a memorable date. Spending quality time is really helpful to cope up with the sourness.
These are some easy ways to tackle the fight and bring back your relationship on right track!
