In this fast-paced word, technology is everything. In fact, staying connected is one of the easiest things to do. Especially for couples. But is communication losing it’s race against compatibility? Do big-shot couples feel that compatibility is, in fact, a tad bit more important than communication? Well, let’s find out.
In this fast-paced world, technology is everything.
In fact, staying connected is one of the easiest things to do. Especially for couples. But is communication losing it’s race against compatibility? Do big-shot couples feel that compatibility is, in fact, a tad bit more important than communication? Well, let’s find out.
No smoke means no fire:
Experts and relationship rookies argue that without compatibility, there’s no scope for communication. If you don’t know what to talk to him/her about, what are you going to ever communicate about? The weather and football? But other theorists say that if you don’t have the tool of communication, how would you know your compatibility level? Makes sense, eh? It totally does. But once he initial seed has been sown, you need a compatible partner more than a communicative one. One who enjoys the same things as you is easier to foster a relationship with than one who has no clue about certain things.
It’ll make communication easier:
It’s quite natural, eh? Once you’re connected because you have so many things in common, it would be easier for you to connect with the other, right? You’d never think of communication as a burden, but as the natural extension of your love and affection. With so many things on common, you never have to worry about running out of topics. Clearly, being compatible is more important and necessary than being communicative. Isn’t it? Without that streak that binds the two of you together, there’s nothing to communicate about. Naturally, this round goes to compatibility. What say you?
Dating is a dream, when compatible:
Dating becomes a dream when you’re compatible and cool with each other. You don’t have to make efforts to meet, talk and discuss life. You just have to think about them and your life is sorted! Isn’t that one of the coolest things ever? You don’t have to take any extra lessons to make your relationship work. Moreover, you don’t even have to talk and meet everyday to make your love shine. You can stay continents apart, yet make it great. All thanks to your shared interests and likes. You know what a cool thing it’s to have somebody you love be there for you cheering, rooting and liking the same things. Wow, what a giddy high.
It protects you from ugly fights:
She/he can never tell you why your obsessions and passions are crazy and worth fighting over. Because they have the same likes and dislikes. They know what it feels like. So you’re invariably saved from ugly spats and bickering. But if you’re dependent on communication alone, you can end up being alienated because the root of all your worries is that you don’t talk enough or talk way too much.
Communication can be complicated:
It’s simple as the sentence above. When you’re constantly talking or discussing stuff, you tend to overdo it in such a way that you end up complicating it. Is that what you want? Obviously not, right? But imagine if you’re joined at the hip because of your likes and dislikes, there’s no way you would end up hating each other. Compatibility has never been known to kill anyone! This round belongs to compatibility too. Hands down.
Although relationships are about love and understanding, compatibility plays and even greater role. You need not be alike, but similar enough to bear each other.
