How Is A Girl Judged When Entering Into A Second Relationship, After A Failed First

Girls are one of the easiest subjects, who are judged by the people.

When a girl is raped, it’s her mistake. When a guy rejects her, it’s her fault that she is not up to the mark despite of the fact that no person is perfect.

Similarly, a girl is also judged when she gets into a second relationship.

With all the bitter experiences she had in the past, when she tries to move on in life, for a better tomorrow with a new person, she comes across many such questions from people around.

1. How can she get over her ex so soon?
   People have the tendency to snoop over other people and so they judge a girl on how early she moved on with the previous relationship. But let me clear one thing, it is never that easy for any girl. Even though she is getting into another one, there are still things that keep pulling her back and she knows that someone will help her get over it. It’s not about staying loyal with just one person, but with the right person rather.

2. She must have cheated on him.

   Why can’t a guy cheat on the girl? What if a guy must have double crossed a girl and left her heart broken? We must develop a tendency of viewing things from other person’s perspective. I don’t say it’s always a guy’s mistake, but that doesn’t mean we would always blame the girl.

3. She doesn’t have a heart.

   People do have apprehensions that the girl must have been so heartless that she left the guy all alone. There might be a situation when both would have had a mutual decision of calling off the relationship and move on with a positive attitude. Unfortunately, not all relationships are that lucky, which last till eternity. 
4. Will she be able to do justice to the new guy in her life?
   When a person moves on, he or she learns from the mistakes and the new relationship will be an all new experience where she might take care of the previous things and not to repeat those mistakes. On top of that, when a guy is all ready to accept the girl even after knowing his past, then it’s the best thing.

The whole idea behind this post is we need to respect every individual’s choices and primarily their individuality. Every person is free to decide, and live a life of dignity, which should be appreciated.