Six Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Always Depend On Your Partner

It is very important to note one thing in life – You shouldn’t always depend on your partner once you get into a relationship.

It is not completely wrong to depend on your partner for certain things but doing it every time and for everything is overall a big fat mistake. No matter if you are in love but don’t blindfold yourself for everything that belongs to you.

As the saying with a truthful message go- “You come into this world alone and leave it in the exact same way”.

Well, before you start getting dependent on others including your partner; do know the reasons why you shouldn’t do that and give it a full stop.

1. No self-independency

The very first thing about being dependent on your partner is; it makes you leave your-self independency. Being independent is a must in this world and if you’re losing it all then it’ll be a tough life to deal with.

2. No space for your decision making

Each and every person must be a decision maker at least for their own needs. But, if you’re too keen into relying on your partner to make a decision for your things then it is a blunder.

3. Stuck in situations

At times, if your partner isn’t around to deal a certain situation then all responsibility will be on you. But, only because of his missing presence if you fail to fix it right then it’ll be because of you.

4. Lazy bump

You might find this a little funny but trust me it can be a reason too.

If your partner is doing the work you should do then trust me you’ll lack energy and will be a lazy bump.

5. Money won’t take you far

If you are too dependent on your partner’s money then you’re on a wrong track. It’s quite possible that your partner won’t be there every time you need him/her to spend on you. Right? Think about it.

You need to be independent to earn for yourself because a relationship might end sooner or later.

6. “Good for nothing”

No matter how good your partner is, only because you’re dependent will mark a tag that you are “good for nothing”. Your partner might not say it directly but if a relationship ends later then it’ll also go on like- you owe your partner a lot for the things he/she did for you.

 These points denotes why you shouldn’t always depend on your partner.

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