What If You Get Hitched To Someone Other Than Your Boyfriend?

A typical love story or a fairy tale has a happy ending with a girl and a boy, who loved each other, get married and lived happily ever after.

Life looks so beautiful and sorted after watching such a love story. But unfortunately not love story end up on marriages. There are at times situations when a girl and a boy are unable to make it possible to marry each other.

All their dreams of living and spending the life together come to an end when the girl marries some other guy other than her boyfriend.

Keeping the society in mind there are many cases when a girl is either forced or ends up marrying a random guy and not her boyfriend. The reasons are numerous. It can be because of the fact that they are not sure of each other, although they love each other.

Also one great reason is the parental and the societal pressure which is one of the most common reasons.

It’s a difficult time for both girl and a boy, but at the same time a girl goes thru zillion emotions when she leaves back her boyfriend, her past and marry a stranger. Few of them can be:

Getting over

After winding up the whole relationship, it is very difficult for a girl to gather herself, forget the past and start a fresh life al together. The emotions are very sad, and it takes a lot of courage to hide that pain and give back a fake smile to the world.

 

Emotional attachment

It is very difficult for a person to get emotionally attached to the person again and again. One cannot do this and the feelings are hurt to the core.Also there is a big challenge ahead her to do complete justice to the to-be husband who comes out to be a stranger.

 

Comparison

Comparisons come out to be the obvious thing when you marry someone else, because at the back of your mind you have still not accepted the fact that you are getting married to someone else other than your boyfriend. Therefore, you end up comparing which again makes you feel bad about yourself.

 

Anxiety

A girl goes through all types of anxieties about the future when she is getting married. It does have a lot of emotions and you think of the uncertainties clinging on to her head. Will the new person in her life be a good choice, will she be able to accept him in life?

The emotions of a girl can’t be measured and those who cannot make it still take a brave move keeping in mind the feelings of her parents and this is one thing to be truly appreciated!