Lack of Passion In Bed
When we think of cheating in the traditional sense, having sex with another person comes to mind, right? But what if your partner is having sex with you only, but you are busy calculating bills in the mind or thinking of next status update on Facebook, so that you get maximum likes or comments? It’s an ultimate situation in which the person you love is trying to make love to you, but you are in an entirely different world, ignoring his company and efforts at that very instance. How about that? Won’t you call it cheating?
Well, sure to say that having sex outside the relationship is a conventional form of cheating, but, we have devised many contemporary ones, with the twisted lives we live today. We are cheating on our partners every day. Cheating them of love, of caring, of the time they deserve, of your expression they must experience, and the passionate moments they most take pleasure in.
And we rarely know that these sorts of cheating are causing more damage than any illicit sexual sexapades.
Lack of communication, attention, passion, intimacy and the consequent lack of love need to be corrected.
You need to take a minute to tell your partner, while making a passionate eye contact, that she’s beautiful.
You need to call your man after work to say, “Get dressed in 10 minutes. We are going for a drive and a dinner at a place very special”
Make an effort to bring back that old fashioned love and enliven the relationship.
Hold hands, open the car doors, pull the chairs, kiss on the cheeks and whisper sweet nothings, send flower bouquets, and have long walks together.
Give them the attention, love and compassion that they deserve and stop cheating on your partner every day!
