Are you with an unromantic partner?
Do you sulk over their dry behaviour, and feel deprived of romantic dates?
Well, I totally understand that being in a relationship with an unromantic partner can be a very disappointing situation. Unromantic men are every woman’s huge irritation.
Forget the romantic dates planned by him, even sending him a text is a thoughtful process, expecting that he wouldn’t read or reply in time, right? They actually don’t seem to have a single romantic gene in their body.
Yet, I would say, they aren’t that dry either. They do make the effort to occasionally show you that they care, maybe in their very own special way, which if you pay close attention to, can be cute little treats for you.
Here are 10 things an unromantic guy usually does to make her girl feel loved, without being overtly drooly over her.
1) If your guy loves you and cannot express it enough in the language of romance, every now and then he would cancel the plans with his guy friends, just to be with you. Yes, that’s BIG. For him to let go of all those beer marathons and be with you and also to endure his friends taunting him for not following the bro code is a huge “I Love You” shout out.
2) He may not be SRK who breaks into a song every time Kajol makes an entry, but he would definitely be the quiet Nawaazuddin who would stand by you in all the difficult situations, and make you feel loved. If you got such a guy, he is sure for the keeps. You are lucky!
3) No, you cannot expect teddies, and roses, and chocolates as presents from such a man. And that might bring you down, but the up mark here is, that this man would gift the most precious time of his life to you. He is always there for you. To listen to you, to spend time with you and to make you feel comforted.
4) Unromantic guys usually get high on good conversations. Never shy of discussing matters, offering advices and sharing lives is one thing they love to do. And if he is opening up with you, sharing his aspirations and dreams, it’s a super sign that he loves you for sure.
5) The guys low on romance are usually up on chores. They wouldn’t mind doing the dirty stuff! No, not in bed! Hold your horses girls, I am talking about the stuff around the house. He wouldn’t mind taking out the garbage, or doing the dishes or fixing the dinner on a working night for you. They might not seem like incredibly romantic gestures, but that’s a great way for him to show that he cares, and saying that he loves you.
6) Unromantic guys are wary of PDA (Public Display of Affection), yes, but they are too protective of you in the crowded areas. If he sees an unruly circumstance, he would deliberately put his arm around you to make you comfortable. These are his declarations of love, that you need to listen to.
7) He might not display love, but he would go out of the way to convey that he respects you a lot. Respecting you, your ideas, your beliefs and what you stand for is perhaps one of the best ways to say “I love you”.
8) You constitute a big part of his life. He takes an initiative to introduce you to all of his family, friends, cousins, and feels proud while doing so. That’s a sign enough that he loves you madly.
9) You can never expect romantic night-outs or irresistibly dreamy dates from him. Yet, he would do things like calling your parents to know their well being, or maybe inviting your friends over for you to have a chit chat session. This should tell you that he loves you for sure.
10) He may not be the one who buys you expensive stuff and wouldn’t know what choices you have in fashion and other stuff, but, he would always be ready to spend hours with you on your shopping trips, even if has to be a quiet spectator.
So, here you go girls! If you are getting any of these from your unromantic guy, be happy that he is saying “I love You”, in his own special way.
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