If You Are A Girl! On These 10 Situations You Have A Right To Say NO!
We all are from a planet called People Pleasing!
We love to fall into that acceptance game and doing randomly stupid stuff so that people are pleased of us and accept us as a nice person. This appears so futile to me!
With such ass licking attitude, saying no becomes a huge task!
But, being a girl and that too in young years, it becomes imperative to learn to say no as and when you desire. You have to learn to put your needs first and get rid of the guilt, if you are saying no.
Trust me, it is absolutely ok to say no if you are not comfortable doing something.
Here are 10 situations that may call for a no and you will have to say it in a stern voice, while putting your foot down!
You are invited to a friend’s get together which you totally are not up to. Say no and do not feel bad about it. It’s your prerogative to choose your fun times. No one can impose on you. You can always excuse yourself by making a prior phone call and saying that you have to attend to something really important. obscure
A friend asks for a small loan. You have the money but you are totally unwilling to lend. Say no and make an honest statement. Tell them that you have your expenses to be taken care of. Do not feel sorry about it.
Guests are willing to come, maybe your in laws or some relative, to stay with you. You are in no mood to attend to guests and spend the days in kitchen. Say no. Let them know that you have some other plans, which were fixed earlier. Be polite but be firm. It’s your life, you can lead it the way it makes you happy and comfortable.
Your beau insists on having sex but you are in no state of mind to cozy up. Cuddle with them and tell politely that sex is not on your mind and that your body is not willing. Indulge in some other activity instead, like playing a game or eating out together.
Your friends want to go out pubbing but you want to stay home and watch a movie alone. Say no and tell them you might join later if you feel like it.
Your boss is hell bent on giving you task over task and you are burried under work. Tell him you are willing to work but you need more time. Immediate deadlines will not be possible for you.
When you are fed up of the unreasonable demands of your friends or relatives who just wouldn’t understand your responsibilities. Say no to their stipulates. Do not feel bad about saying no. Let them know that you are not supposed to be on their command all the time.
Your are out for shopping with your best friend and she insists that you two buy same pair of shoes or same handbags to flaunt in friends. Say no if you are not up to the idea. Tell her that you wish to buy something else, you have been saving money for.
While in bed your boyfriend asks to make a certain favour which you are simply not willing to. Say no. You are in a pleasurable activity and you deserve to do things which give you pleasure, not spoil it for you.
People on the internet try to make a mundane conversation. Say no if it bothers you. Tell them you do not have free time to keep making conversations with unknown people.
Remember, there is no obligation to anybody and you do not owe anything to anyone. Stay confident and stay in your life the way you want. Do not let people change your plans or priorities or choices for that matter.
