Girls, These 9 Things You Must Do Before You Get Married!

For a girl the life changes after marriage. The things that matter the most when a girl is a spinster, start to lose their meaning.

There are many aspects of life that fade away when the family and people around change. The priorities change and the lifestyle takes a 360 degree turn sometimes. Life becomes about ‘we’ rather than ‘me’.

Therefore, before the life alters, Girls – 9 things you must do before you get married. Absolutely imperative. After all, you need some interesting stories to tell your grandkids, right?

1.  Live Completely Alone For Few Months

Being on your own is the absolute sense of freedom which is very important to achieve before you dive into the whirlpool of spouse, and family, and responsibilities, and social norms. You may choose to be with a roommate, if being totally alone is not your idea.

2.  Plan A Holiday With Your Girlie Gang

An all girl trip must be on your bucket list before you tie the knot to a man. It’s beyond your imagination how exciting and thrilling it is going to be. The perks of this trip are going to be just beyond your expectations. Once you are in a family routine and responsibility, it will be utmost difficult to take even a day off.

3.  Experience A Broken Relationship 

Yes, this is important too. A wrong relationship will do nothing but make you stronger. Being with the wrong guy helps you understand love better and appreciate the right guy more when he comes along.

4.  Learn To Plan Your Finances On You Own

Budgeting is one of girl’s nightmares. We all make huge budgeting mistakes for the vulnerable creatures that we are. See the SALE tag and we go weak in our knees. But, you must know how to turn your budgeting mistakes into life lessons. And also, it is not fair to depend on someone else for all your financial planning.

5.  Get Into Your Dream Job 

Before you get married, try your hands, even if for few months that be, at something you always wanted to do. Be it being a model, or pianist at a restaurant, or a makeup artist. Do not wait for the regrets later on. Do it now.

6.  Go Dating As Much As You Want 

Download a dating app or go on a date fixed up by common friends. This if you have deprived yourself of dating fun all this while. It may give you some amazing experiences, and be ready for some horrible ones too. They will make you wiser in relationships.

7.  Learn To Adapt A Healthy Lifestyle And Learn To Cook

Learn to be a nice and healthy family person because you would definitely expect that from your husband too.

Cut down on the drinking, start to clean your room, exercise and stay fir and awesome. And you must get your act together at cooking too. Of course not to make your MIL happy, but to get equipped for you and your hubby, in case you have to start a new life without a cook.

8.  Give The Best Time of Life To Your Parents

Go out shopping with mom and treat her over her favourite coffee. Plan a short trip with dad or go golfing with him. Maybe a few movie marathon sessions at home while you cook their most favourite recipes. You will long for these times once you are married. Call these times before you are hooked.

9.  Love Your Body And Splurge On Self Going All Out

Your body is the temple which your husband will worship only if you make him believe so. Love your body and pamper it the way you want. That will happen only when you feel proud of self and embrace yourself like you are the most beautiful person on earth. Go shopping, go spa sessions, and beauty therapies, before you are ready for the big day.

Girls, life is only once. And you have to make the best of each moment while you can have it on your own terms. Not saying that you can’t in a marriage, but yes compromises and adjustments are a huge part of married life, which you can forget while you are a spinster.

Go Live!