“Don’t Expect These 6 Things From People”
“Sometimes we create our own heartbreaks through expectations”
Isn’t that true?
No matter how much you deny it, expectation always hurt. You must’ve learned some lessons in 2016 for sure. Well, 2017 is right around the corner and you’ll definitely want it to be a great year, right? The first step towards making it great is, not expecting anything from others at all. No matter how close you are with people; just don’t keep any kinds of expectations.
Trust me; you’ll welcome peace and happiness by not expecting anything. So based on that fact, don’t expect these 6 things from people at all.
- Don’t Expect Them To Not Hurt You
No matter how close you are, fights are a part of relationship. And sometimes, your trustworthy person might hurt you. So, don’t keep crying over how can he/she hurt me like that and stuff. Try to understand that sometimes even our parents hurt us. So, don’t act strangely or don’t over react about the hurting thing. Instead, be prepared to accept it and solve it to make everything better.
- Don’t Expect Them To Remain The Same
New Year brings new opportunities, right? So, if your friend or any close pal gets an opportunity and you start seeing the difference in ‘em, don’t bump into fighting and creating a scenario thing. You can be whatever you want to and even they’ve the right to choose whoever they want to be.
- Don’t Expect Them To Know Everything About You
You might’ve been together for 1-2 years but don’t expect that they should know everything about you and stuff. To be honest, sometimes even the best-friends have no idea about what their friends like and dislikes. So, just cause’ you know everything about ‘em, that doesn’t mean that they’ve to know about you as well. You might be good at remembering details but they’re not and that’s cool.
- Don’t Expect Them To Be “Perfect In Everything”
Expecting things just cause’ your friend is 2 years older than you doesn’t mean that he/she has to be smart and perfect. Perfection is just a myth, so don’t get trapped into it. Don’t expect that whatever task you do, the opposite person has to be right. We all have flaws and that’s why, learn to accept and appreciate it.
- Don’t Expect Them To Be With You All The Time
As I mentioned earlier, it doesn’t matter if you know your friend for 3 good years. Learn to do things on your own and get out of the dream of “I know you’ll always be there with me” etc. This is just a dialogue best suited for movies and not a real life.
- Don’t Expect Them To Be Honest With You
Just cause’ you’re honest; don’t expect the other person to be 100% honest as well. I know that honesty is the best policy, but there are many who don’t believe in it. So, cut that honest expectation and be smart before the time passes.
Based on my own experiences, just don’t expect these 6 things from people in 2017. If you’ve anything to add, comment below.
