Strong personalities are unique in their own ways. They are distinctively visible in a room full of people. And they are often misconstrued as dominating, rude or non-compassionate!
In all reality none of these are true. These words actually do not reflect a strong personality. Strong people do not thrive on winning by exploiting or hurting other people in the quest, they just are just not willing to let other people walk all over them, and hence they react quickly, sometimes.
May be they often choose wrong ways to reflect the insides out! From my own experiences and reflections there of, I have gauged many wrong ways of projection that many strong people use mistakenly and ruin things. However, there are ways to portray a strong personality, if you possess one, and get the things done your way. It surely is a life changing mantra.
Allow me to share with you.
When you are aware that you have a strong personality, you would be heaving with energies to roll out. Take caution in the direction you put your energies in. Choose your battles carefully. There is no need to be a part of something which doesn’t reap anything for you. You should rather focus on what you can achieve in life and how you can overcome obstacles get closer your goals. You will finally get into the realm of getting the things done for yourself in the right way.
As a strong person, you do not have to rely on the entire planet to tell you who you are, what you are or what you can do. Some people need to do that to make themselves feel better. They need to hear these things to feel whole. If you are strong or you want to project yourself as strong, you do not need to indulge in such attention seeking tactics. Even if you don’t yet know exactly who you are, you can only seek answers from a specific set of people who you choose carefully to be a part of your life. Make sensible choices on that. When you bar a few people out of your life, it simply projects you as a strong person.
Small talk is terrible. If you want to project your strong personality, you must a lot of ideas. You do not want to waste time talking mundane about people and weather, when you could be changing the world around you. Try and make more meaningful conversations as much as possible, as that is what gets you closer to the things you wish to achieve. That is what brings you, your dose of learning. That is how you ultimately get things done your way.
Dominating personalities come from a lack of influence or knowledge. Strong personalities are the result of being thoughtful and well-informed. There is a huge difference between the two. Because you believe in putting time and effort into using your brain for good, you must object subtly, when people make instant judgements about things they do not know anything of. This is probably the best trait that strong people possess and can display. Not because you want to use your knowledge and eloquence to influence people, but because you can use it to encourage people to actually think about what they say and when they say, before it falls out of their mouth. Speak up and react to insensitive people who are harming others due to their lack of congeniality.
People with strong personalities know how to listen and when to listen, which is a rare trait these days, given the idiosyncrasies people dwell in and impose their ideas on others. If you wish to come across as a strong person, develop a habit of listening intently and getting involved in the conversation meaningfully, and not just being a fleeting part to it. When you listen, you are able to absorb much more than what is on the surface and you understand the personalities. That’s where you land with the ideas on the appropriate usage of the person in question, and get things done positively.
No, I don’t mean that they can walk on a road alone in the middle of a night without and safety measures on hand. What I mean is, strong people are fearless about situations and circumstances that may hinder their path to their aspirations. They are fearless of people who may try to intimidate them. They know how to carve their own path and move on it, leaving behind all that poses as an obstacle. They do not let this fear dictate the way they live their life. Apply this if you wish to come across as a strong personality.
There is a certain way everyone wishes to lead their life, without harming anyone. People who are mentally and emotionally strong, abide by their choices and do not let others hinder them, for reasons that aren’t adequate enough. They lead their life in a manner that brings peace and fulfillment to them, without getting forced into the hollow societal norms, which are nothing but age old conditioning. They make their life and get things done their way, of course, without causing damage or discomfort to others. Opt for it and be projected as a strong person.
Insecurity for them is an opportunity to do better. If they know they are not wonderful in a task, they try their best to reach there. It is never their attitude to not to learn and evolve. If you are not willing to be projected as a strong person, avoid looking like a fool and start to learn what you don’t know. If you are still not doing that, you probably are just existing and not living. Strong people do not just exist, they LIVE a meaningful life. And they get what they want in life.
Sure, some people think that people with strong personalities are difficult to be around. But they’re only difficult to be around because they challenge other people to be the best version of themselves!
If this is what being difficult is like than you already know that it is the best to just keep BEING YOU!
Pave your road and let others be on it too, is at all they wish to!
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