Signs That She Might Be Into You ‘“ Myths Busted

For men, their relationship status changing from “single” to “committed” is an enthralling transition.

However, not every guy meets with a similar experience, as he faces rejection upon approaching his female interest.

More often than not, their defence under such a scenario is, “I thought she was into me”.

Mixed signals are often the reason behind heartbreaks.

I bring to you one such assessment of female behaviour that must not be considered as “signals that she might be into you”.

She Plays with Her Hair

A girl touching her hair while talking to her male companion is often seen as an unconscious sign that she might be into him. Well, not necessarily. Have you considered that it might just be another windy day? Or that she has twirled her hair so many times till date that it has become a habit? She may also be doing it unintentionally; that does not mean she is interested in a relationship.

The Head Rest

Picture yourself in a theatre seated alongside the lady of your dreams. She playfully rests her head on your shoulder. Without drawing any conclusion, check if she is asleep; perhaps, an irritating bug is flying by her ear and her head touched your shoulder multiple times. DO NOT SPECULATE.

She Offers Her Phone Number

So in what way does giving phone number justify that someone might be into another person? For all I know, if it happens and you text her frequently, she might categorise you as a creep. In case she is a co-worker, she may have given you her contact number for official matter. (NOTE: If you cannot get over the urge to ask her out, never do it via text; grow a pair and get rejected like a man.)

She Stands Close to You

Girls usually prefer standing close to guys, as it gives them a sense of security. Look around when this happens; it may be the case that an eerie person is standing beside her which is why she may have stood very close to you. Just let the moment pass and avert from making any moves in the coming days.

She Maintains Eye Contact

Eye contact! As a sign that she may be into you? Oh please. Eye contact is considered as one of the strongest body languages. Looking deep into someone’s eyes does not indicate electricity of romance. Moreover, if the topic of discussion is boring, she may have learned to sleep with her eyes open.

She Playfully Touches You

Maybe she cannot keep her hands to herself. Or maybe your jokes are so bad that she is actually punching you, but because her fists are so small, they do not hurt as they actually should. Do not misinterpret her punches as light-hearted touches.

Unless you get verbal confirmation that she actually likes you, do not make a move judging by her body language. Actions can be misguiding and may lead to severe heartbreak.

“PRECAUTION” IS BETTER THAN CURE is the perfect proverb in irresolute male-female relationships.