You have asked your dream girl/boy out on a date, you have picked out the chicest joint in town for the night and have made all the arrangements possible to make this evening one of the most romantic and memorable ones of the year. But how to tell if your date is actually into you or not! Well, we tell you how…read on!
You have asked your dream girl/boy out on a date, you have picked out the chicest joint in town for the night and have made all the arrangements possible to make this evening one of the most romantic and memorable ones of the year. But how to tell if your date is actually into you or not! Well, we tell you how…read on!
She fiddles with her hair. A lot!
Well, if the girl you’re with fiddles with her hair a lot, she is totally into you. Women do this unknowingly, because a) they love their hair, b) they want you to notice it, c) they are imagining how your hand will feel against their hair. But if she is fiddling with it without making eye contact with you, drop her like a hot potato. Because she is only bidding time till she can fake an emergency and scoot off from there!
He Looks into your eyes:
Not creepily staring at you like a potential stalker, but looking into your eyes without making your uncomfortable (or blush) then there is going to be another date for sure. Guys do give their girls all the attention at a romantic set up, but if he is gazing into your eyes with a slight twinkle, he is probably thanking his stars for bringing you to him. You should gaze back too, smile and nod a little and continue the conversation without breaking the flow.
Touchy feely:
This applies to both the genders. If he touches your arm, hand, back or shoulder (all in a friendly manner, of course), he is definitely thinking of you as someone worth spending his money and time on. And if she takes your hand to walk to her seat, touches your shoulder lightly or pats your back while laughing at your jokes, she is sending out signals in all directions. She is enjoying being with you and wouldn’t mind going on another date.
Phone is off the hook:
Once again, this applies to both of you. If his/her phone is off the hook and he/she is ONLY concentrating on you , it’s sure shot sign that he/she is interested…and more! In this day and age of tagging, checking-in and Instagram, you have to be someone pretty special to make your date not obsess over his/her phone.
Engaging conversation:
Fiddling with hair can be faked, looking into the eyes can be faked. But an engaging conversation, peppered with laughter and punctuated with animated shrieks JUST can’t be forced. If you like his/her company, you’re bound to indulge in fun talks and stare at each other with awkward smiles. So, if this is how your date turns out to be, you’re in for some great loving!
We do hope your V-Day celebrations turn out to be smashing! But don’t read too much into these signs as some people are pretty reserved. And that doesn’t mean that they are not into you. Instead of losing sleep over it, ask them point blank how they liked the evening with you. If they hesitate or don’t call you the morning-after, you have got your answer!
